I see you, I see how hard you’re trying while quietly convincing yourself it’s never quite good enough.  I see the way you hold your breath waiting to be “found out”, as if your accomplishments are accidents, and your struggles are proof of some fundamental lack.  But there’s what your fear won’t tell you:  this ache of inadequacy? It’s the growing pain of someone becoming more than they ever imagined.

We all carry an inner voice that sorts, labels, and measures.  It tells us what is “good” or “bad”, “right” or “wrong”, “worthy” or “unworthy.”  This is the discriminating mind, a survival tool honed over millennia to keep us safe.  But in our modern lives, this mental habit often does more harm than good.  It builds walls in our relationships, stifles curiosity, and isolates us in social spaces. 

There comes a moment when you realize the loudest voice holding you back has always been your own.  That critical whisper in your head that says “you’re not ready” or “who do you think you are?” – it doesn’t speak truth, it speaks fear.  And fear, while trying to protect you, often keeps you from becoming who you’re meant to be.